Monday, October 10, 2011

Love.... why do you treat me so?

Have you ever met someone so in sync with you that you had no idea how you just met, why your lives have never seriously crossed paths before today? NO? Yeah me niether.... until most recently. I met someone at a laundry mat, we were both doing our own thing; I was in no way shape or form looking for love that day. As a matter of fact my pain and I were doing quite well, we were happy with one another and moving along throuh life just fine.  Let me say this about myself, and yes I know a lot about me and knowing is half the battle. when I meet someone who I think has some potential, I try to make them mesh well into my life, into my vision for life and incorporate what they want into the vision. I have dated many over the years and none have worked out.I know that some were of my own personal sabatoge and others should have never began in the first place. I met someone at a laundry mat, oh I said that already? SO I met someone and we only talked for about thirty minutes, but I knew he was someone who I wanted to know more about. He said as we parted, let me know when you are ready to be a wife and settle down, or something along those lines, I'm editing cause I know you don't need every little detail, or do you? The next night I had a very real dream about him, and I believe that dreams are wants and desires of the heart and at times visions of things to come. This was not a sex dream, I don't have time for thinking about sexing a man... But it left me thinking I hope that our paths cross in life again. I believe in destiny and I know that everthing happens for a reason, always, there are no mistakes. About 2 weeks later guess who I see again? I was very hapy to see him, but i had to play it cool, who wants to be a crazy person, we only met once, but finally just as we were about to part ways again, he said yeah maybe we could get the kids together to play, if thats the way he wanted to play this card, I was in!! Well we spoke and texted every day since. He literally says things that I was thinking about all the time, and I think ro myself did I mention this or did he really just say what I was thinking? I have never met anyone, let alone a man, who was so in sync with me, things are going very well, not to say that we haven't had our issues, but we are taking it slow, as quickly as possible, if that makes any sense... Well I love, love so let's see where this goes!